Start On A New Path

 

There are many reasons that my clients decide to begin therapy. For some, they are coming back to therapy after years of doing well. Others, this might be the first time they have ever called a mental health professional. Either way, you have taken the first step on a new path!

I work with people who are experiencing a variety of different stressors, feelings, and symptoms. Below, you can learn more about my focus areas. My clients come from a variety of backgrounds, they are different races, sexual orientations, gender identities, ages, but all have decided that they are ready to feel better. I hope you are ready to feel better too!

Individual Therapy

 

Inspired Happiness Stacey Aldridge LCSW

Depression

When you are depressed, it is more than just sadness. You may feel sad, or nothing at all. Irritability, hopelessness, and anger can be signs of depression. If you have lost interest in things you used to enjoy; have changes to your appetite and sleep; or have difficulty completing your daily tasks, you might be depressed.

 

Inspired Happiness Stacey Aldridge LCSW

Anxiety & Stress

Anxiety can be emotional feelings as well as feelings in your body. Unexplained tension in your muscles, clenching your jaw, and making fists, this can be a sign of anxiety. Anxiety is more than just worrying. Often, people who are anxious cannot find a cause for it, they are not worrying about anything in particular they just have the sense that something bad is about to happen.

Anxiety can also be specific, like fear of talking to people you don’t know or being in situations you can’t control. It might be hyper-focus on grades or work performance. If anxiety is taking over your daily life, there are techniques you can learn to control it.

 

Inspired Happiness Stacey Aldridge LCSW

Relationship
Issues

Some people would like to go to couple’s counseling but their partner is uninterested. It might also be that you need to make a decision about the relationship that you would prefer to do without your significant other in the room. My clients come to me for things like trying to figure out if they want to continue a relationship or  a suspicion that the relationship might be unhealthy. Often, they are not sure what they want and need a safe place to figure it out.

Regardless of what it is that is bothering you about your relationship, therapy is a great place to sort it out. I do not tell people what to do, I help them figure out what is best for them, regardless of my own opinion!

 

Inspired Happiness Stacey Aldridge LCSW

Low Self-Esteem and Codependency

Do you have trouble saying “no” and feel guilty when you do? Have you found that you accept behavior from family that your friends say is not acceptable? Do struggle with feelings like unworthiness or feel unattractive even though people tell you are attractive? Are you avoiding taking chances because you fear failure or rejection? Do you feel like you put all your time and energy into your relationships but get nothing back?

If you have answered “yes” to any of these questions you might be struggling with low self-esteem and/or codependency. I can help you figure out where you want your boundaries to be and how to start putting yourself first. I can teach you how to combat your negative self talk that fuels feelings of never being good enough.

Inspired Happiness Stacey Aldridge LCSW

Emotional Sensitivity and Fear of Abandonment

See if this sounds familiar: Your friends and romantic partners tell you that you are “too sensitive” all of the time. You “overreact” at small things. You tend to care more about things that those around you and it’s hard to figure out why. Your feelings are “bigger” than most other people you know, when you are happy you are very happy but when you are low it feels like you will never survive it.

If your significant other doesn’t text you back quickly or seems to be unavailable you panic. First you are scared and then you are angry. You get more and more angry the longer they go without getting back to you. Sometimes you might break up with them but then try to get back together quickly after because you regret the breakup. The people you date say you are too jealous or controlling. Occasionally you might text the people that say they care about you to see if they are telling the truth.

You do not have to live with extreme mood swings. DBT is a form of therapy that teaches skills to help you regulate your emotions. You will also learn how to communicate better with the people you care about that just don’t seem to understand you. Learn more about DBT.

 

Inspired Happiness Stacey Aldridge LCSW

Grief and Loss

Grief is a reaction to any significant loss. While we associate grief with death, there are many losses besides death that you might be grieving. The loss of a job, the end of a marriage, a move to another city, even life transitions like retirement or kids moving out can cause grief. If you find you are having trouble moving on from a loss, I can help you process and begin to heal.

 

Inspired Happiness Stacey Aldridge LCSW

Childhood Emotional Neglect

Neglect is not the same as abuse. Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) occurs when the adults in a child’s life fail to meet their emotional needs. This is often unintentional due to a parent’s physical or mental illness, or a sibling who has special needs. Childhood emotional neglect can lead to a feeling of emptiness, inability to say “no”, and difficulty identifying what you are feeling – even denying you have feelings! It is possible you feel guilty for having needs and you may not trust other people. “If you want something done right, do it yourself” is the mantra of many a person with CEN.  To learn more about CEN read my blog post about it.

 

Inspired Happiness Stacey Aldridge LCSW

Thriving after
narcissistic abuse and recovering from
emotional &
psychological abuse

Emotional and psychological abuse can sometimes be hard to see because it is not as overt as physical abuse. The old saying “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me” is wrong. Words hurt. Studies have shown that wounds heal more slowly if a person is living in an environment where they are subjected to emotional abuse! Whether it’s name calling, belittling, gaslighting, tearing you down, manipulation, these can be just as damaging as if the person hit you. Your sense of self is shaken when you are emotionally abused and I can help you rebuild your confidence in yourself.

 

While the word “narcissist” is thrown around a lot, approximately 1% of the population have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD.) 50-75% of those that do are men[1]. This means that many people are co-parenting with someone who has NPD. Those with NPD do not experience empathy in the way that other people do. They lie, manipulate, and do whatever they must do in order to get what. Those with NPD abuse the people around them mentally and emotionally, as well as physically in some cases. NPDs will make you doubt your own sanity. They may convince you that you are the problem. Healing after narcissistic abuse is difficult but I can help you learn to trust yourself again. If you are co-parenting with or divorcing a narcissist I can help you learn to set and maintain boundaries even with your ex is determined to shatter them.

 

Inspired Happiness Stacey Aldridge LCSW

Chronic Illness

You may not realize that having a chronic physical illness impacts your mental health. We cannot separate our physical and mental health. A chronic illness might cause symptoms of depression and anxiety but it is more complicated than depression or anxiety by themselves. There is a grief process that comes from accepting your body may not be able to do what you want it to do, or that your health may keep you from doing things you used to be able to do.

 

Appointment

To schedule an appointment to see Stacey at Grace Christian Counseling, Canton MS or Vicksburg MS office please call: 769-224-4234.

Hours:
Monday 1pm-5pm*
Tuesday 9am-5pm
Wednesday 9am-5pm
Thursday 9am-5pm (Vicksburg)

* Telehealth only

Limited evening hours available in some cases, please call to discuss.

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